My dream girl

I've been asked this question several times: what type of girl do you prefer? I've never given a straight answer, but after all this time, here is my reply:

Spontaneous. I like girls who are spontaneous. Girls who think out of the box, who are unique and aren't afraid to show it. She is who she is and she doesn't care what everyone else thinks of her. I think that that is what appeals to me the most, a girl's confidence. I trust that is also the same for girls? Girls like confident guys.I like girls who are outgoing, unlike me. I like girls who can stand up for themselves (mostly because I can't.. just kidding). I probably sound like such a wuss now, but that isn't really the case. If I loved my girlfriend, I'd protect her will all my life. Sounds so cheesy, but it's true. Probably.

Anyway, besides her spontaneous personality, my dream girl would be pretty. I'm not gonna lie, I'm a shallow guy. I know I shouldn't, but it can't be helped. My standards aren't too high. You guys must think I'm a douche now... I'm just saying, girls should care a little about how they look, as first appearances are really important. Not so much make up that it disguises who you are, but not so little care that there's leftover pizza on your face. It's actually more difficult to explain in words. It makes so much sense in my head though. Does anyone understand me?

According to Jam, I like girls with dyed hair. I guess this is true, most of the girls I've had a crush on do have dyed hair. Apparently I also like girls who are 'cute'. I wouldn't say that these kind of girls are my type though.

If I had to choose a girl closest to fitting my type, it would be Zara. She's a fictional character in the romantic comedy film Kissing Cousins. Portrayed by English-Indian actress, Rebecca Hazlewood, Zara is definitely the kind of girl I want to date. Honest, open and kind. She's also really cool, someone is wanna hang out with all the time. I reckon with her, not a day would be boring. Wow I did not expect so much cheese in this post.

I watched this on YouTube

Well, there you go. A detailed post describing my dream girl. I haven't met anyone like this yet (actually, maybe once but you'll never know who she is mwuhahaha). Obviously this doesn't mean I limit myself to what kind of girl I date, after all, you can't choose who you love. Anything could happen.

Here are some nice photos of Rebecca Hazlewood, my latest actress crush:

At first I didn't think she was pretty at all, but then I opened my eyes...

Soulmate

How do you know if he/she's the one? If they're worth your effort?

So there's this person you really like, but it doesn't seem as if they have any interest in you whatsoever. Do you carry on pursuing them, even if it annoys them, or do you give up completely?

Let's create a scenario. We have Howard, 17, the guy who's never had any luck with girls. He wears glasses ad has no sense of fashion. Then there's Sally, the 'love of his life'. She's the popular blonde one who has all the boys in line waiting for her. Stereotypical, but it'll do.

Howard has finally mustered the courage to confess to her. She rejects him. Just like that. Howard, who was already lacking confidence, backs away and remains depressed for the rest of the year. It seems like even though she's his soulmate, it was never meant to be. What went wrong? Let's take a step back.

If Howard really believed she was the one, he shouldn't have gave up. He won't know what's going to happen. Nobody does. But if Sally is the one, he should never give up.

Now if Howard did keep pursuing her, there's only going to be two outcomes:
A. Sally realises her love for him, and Howard has succeeded in finding his soulmate.
B. Sally gets pissed off, and Howard never sees her again.

I'm not gonna lie, the latter is most likely going to happen. Maybe she just wasn't the one. I say that to a lot of my guy friends who haven't had the reply they wanted.

In fact, I forgot to mention the third outcome:
C. Howard gives up after a he realises she isn't really the one. Giving up at this stage is different to if he gave up when she first rejected her. Giving up now, Howard doesn't regret anything. He tried his best, and if he gave up at this point, Sally isn't his soulmate.

To summarise, if you think you've found the one, you never give up going for them. If you do find that you give up after giving your all, then they're not the one. You move on, and keep searching. Many people will disagree with me when I say, everyone has one soulmate. You just have to look hard to find them.

Love, really?

Have you ever felt like, you loved someone, but they don't love you back? Like, to you they're your soulmate, but for some reason, to them you're non-existent? I'm willing to bet many people have experienced this feeling, and I just wanna take some time out and discuss this in depth.

Now I'm no love expert (I don't think I've ever even fallen in love before) but from my own experience, this is the knowledge I have gathered.

Love is unpredictable. It's a cliche but a very true fact. You can't do anything about it. You can't choose who you love, it just happens. That guy, he's old enough to be your dad, but you can't help thinking about him. That's love, you can't help it. That girl, she looks like a camel, but you can't stop dreaming about her. That's love, you can't help it.

There's no such thing as loving the wrong person, the only mistake that could happen is thinking you love the person. It can be hard to tell the difference, but it's something you'll have to figure out yourself.

Why do I sound like I know what I'm talking about? Actually, I don't know. Perhaps, none of this is true. Perhaps it is. I believe there's no answer, only personal opinions. Love is not something that can be defined. It's just the way that God created us. Ah, now I'm going off topic. Believe me when I say, this is truly an amazing, yet difficult topic to talk about. It's like I know what I want to say, but I can't express it in words

Okay, I need to reel you back in and make you interested. Let me tell you a bit about myself. First, you should know that I haven't been in a serious relationship before, forget even loving someone. So why am I writing this stuff? I think it's so that people know what my take on love is like... Maybe. It seems like there's more questions and less answers.

Back to the original question: have you ever felt you loved someone, but they don't love you back? What do you do about it then? My thoughts? Do whatever you want. What happens was supposed to happen. They either realise your love for them, and they love you back, or they really just can't love you back. Like I said, you can't choose who to love.

I'm sorry, I came up with more questions, and didn't really give any advice. I wasn't really trying to give answers to be honest, but after writing this, it has really made me curious, even more than before. It's made me want to find out what love really means. Man, I'm sounding so cheesy at the moment. Forgive me, I just watched a romance and now I'm listening to love songs while writing this. I'm probably gonna regret it, but I'll post it tomorrow anyway...